I am an ordained minister since 1991 and have performed many weddings over the years. I would be glad to talk to you about yours. Dad taught me years ago that when God created a woman He took a part of a man, not from his feet to be trampled by him nor from his head to rule over him but from his side that she would be his equal, from under his arm that she would have his strength and protection, and near his heart that she would have his love. I highly recommend that husbands do the same!